Matchmaking for Marriage
Matchmaking for marriage is a tradition from ancient ages in India. As time passes, with the modern times, the use of Horoscope matching has decreased. But still, in the present days, Kundli Matching plays a significant role in our marriage or married life. Lot of people depend very much on matching of charts to secure peace and harmony in life after marriage.
Today, When Divorce or Separation is increasing in an alarming rate in our Society, Nothing but Astrology is the best option that can help one to get rid of these problems. Let’s see how does Astrology work in making the way of one’s married life smoother or help to lead a peaceful married life.
What is the meaning of Matchmaking
Matchmaking is the process of matching the horoscopes of the bride and groom for the purpose of marriage to know whether their married life will be successful or not. Everyone wants a good spouse with whom he or she can create some beautiful memories and feel happy. This is the area where actual happiness of the person lies over. In Traditional Indian culture horoscope or kundli of both boy and girl are matched in order to nullify any bad effects after marriage. Also, in case of any doshas, astrologers offer several remedies and solutions to overcome its malefic effects.
That is why, Most of the Hindu families match the detailed birth charts of their children before deciding to get them married, to see whether their stars are compatible or not.
What is the importance of Horoscope Matching for marriage
The Main importance of Matchmaking for Marriage is Selection of a right Life Partner. Marriage is a turning point in the lives of two individuals and their families. So We are very cautious while taking decision about our Life Partner. When We take birth, the planets position in the sky indicates lot of things , including our Marriage. So Matching of Horoscope, prepared from date of birth, will give us a clue about how our Married Life will be and What is most suitable time for Marriage etc. If we use Astrology in a proper way, We will be able to increase the happiness of our Married Life. That is why many people in India consult an astrologer for Match Making between bride and bridegroom. Matching of charts or MatchMaking for marriage is not an easy job. It needs a lot of hard work indeed. It can only be possible if you have many years of practical experience as well as a better understanding about the Astrology.
So what is the importance of Matchmaking in marriage? What does it say? Is it really important? Let me explain what role Astrology has to play in a person’s married life and why Matchmaking is important for us.
- How compatible are the Stars of the two Souls
One major reason for the Matchmaking before marriage is to understand how compatible the bride and groom are. If two persons are not compatible with each other, If their nature and character is completely different, it becomes very tough for them to Stay together for a Long period of time. As per our Vedic Astrology, there are 36 Gunas in total which Should be matched to conclude how compatible the two people are and how prosperous and harmonious their life after marriage will be. Each of the Gunas has different points and each point indicates a different factor of life. It also indicates the effects of their individual stars and destinies on each other. By matching kundali or Horoscope we can also determine conjugal harmony.
- Financial Stability and Career Prospects
When two people unite in the sacred relationship of marriage, the movement of their planets has an effect not only on their lives, but on each other’s lives too. By matching kundli, financial stability and job prospects are also looked into with great care. Financial Stability plays an important Role in our Life. Hence the Luck and fortune of Boy as well as Girl Should be properly analysed.
- Compatibility to bear Offspring
The Married Life do not become complete without a child. So with Horoscope matching we can come to know that whether both the Boy or Girl has the Yoga for child or not. During the time of Matchmaking child or Progeny should be checked Very carefully. Some People do have Child Yoga in their chart. In Such Situation if they can marry such a Person who is having a Strong Yoga for Child, the couple can get the happiness of child. Since a family is considered complete only after the birth of a child, parents are very particular to secure this happiness for their children after marriage.
- Is this a Good time to perform the Marriage
It is Possible that Sometime Everything is fine , Horoscopes are also Perfectly Matched, But the Time is not Favorable. The result or Outcome of any task performed in Unfavourable time is bound to be unfavorable.
Matchmaking by Date of Birth
Matchmaking by Date of Birth is most important method to find out the compatibility between the bride and the groom. In Astrology, Matchmaking by Date of Birth is calculated on the basis of the planets in the natal chart. As it is a very complicated process, it needs a very in-depth knowledge in Vedic Astrology. With the vast knowledge on the Stars and their transit, an Astrologer can exactly tell you whether you and your would-be are compatible to each other or not. If there are problems, remedies are also prescribed.
What is the actual process of Kundli Matching for marriage
Several methods are followed for matching horoscopes for marriage. In earlier time, The Kundali Matching was given Due importance before Marriage and As a result, most of the marriages used to be successful.
Some People Wants to have Matchmaking by name or through Numerology. But the Process of Matchmaking by Date of birth is the most Accurate and reliable one.
In traditional Hindu astrology for matching of horoscopes between bride and bridegroom, the Rashi or sign and the Nakshatra or constellation in which the Moon is placed in both horoscopes are only considered. Though there are many other aspects which are not studied. It has been found that the ready made compatibility points table given for 36 points for Moon Rashi and Nakshatra in many books and Panchangas for matching both the horoscopes is not correct.
You Should read my Actual Kundali Matching Process for this.
The factors considered by astrologers on the basis of Moon Rashi and Nakshatra are Varna, Vasya, Graha Maitri or Rasyadhipati and Rashi Kuta. The factors for moon Nakshatra are Dina Kuta or Tara Bala, Yoni Kuta, Gana Kuta, Nadi Kuta, Rajju, Vedha, Mahendra and Stree Deergha. This process of Matching Horoscopes on the Basis of Moon Star is known as Ashtakoota Matching.
Each of the aforementioned factors represents some distinct aspects and those are –
Varna- Spiritual or Ego development
Vasya- Magnetic control and Amenability
Graha Maitri(Rasyadhipati)- Psychological disposition, Mental qualities, Affection etc.
Yoni Kuta- Physical contact
Gana Kuta- Character and Temperament
Nadi Kuta- Pulse and Nervous energy, Physiological and Hereditary factors
Rajju- Married life duration and Widowhood
Mahendra- Well-being, Children, Longevity
The position of the Moon is also studied with respect to its hemming on sides, aspects and associations with natural malefic planets and its Ashtak Varga chart.
But this Matching of charts with Only Moon and Moon Naskshatra is not a Best Practice. The Best matchmaking Process is Ashtakoota Matching along with detailed Study of the Individual Horoscopes. There are many other important factors which Should considered in both the horoscopes and these are:
1) Mangal or Mars Dosha, position of Mars from Venus, Moon, Ascendant or Lagna for family and conjugal happiness.
2) Dosha due to four other natural malefic planets- Saturn, Rahu, Ketu and Sun.
3) Ascendants with respect to each other, hemming on both sides by natural malefic planets and 6th, 8th or 12th house lords in the ascendant.
4) Ascendant lords with respect to their placement to each other, friendly or enemy relationship, in 6th, 8th or 12th houses and aspect or association with natural malefics.
5) 7th house lords or marriage lords with respect to points similar to ascendant lords.
6) 8th house lords or lords of longevity with respect to placement to each other and relationship.
7) Factors relating to the other eight planets – Sun, Mars, Rahu, Jupiter, Saturn, Mercury, Ketu and Venus with respect to their placement to each other and the relationship between the lords of the houses where they are positioned.
8) The position of Ascendant and Moon to each other.
9) The position of significators for Marriage and Energy Venus and Mars to each other.
10) Association and aspects of Venus by natural malefic.
A good Professional Matchmaker will never be worried with the ashtakoota points. Because ashtakoota points are calculated only based upon Moon Nakshatra. But if the Individual Horoscopes are Favorable and Supportive, The Marriage can be Performed. The Biggest astrologer of this century Late Mr. B. V. Raman always Suggested the complete Analysis of the Charts and he always suggested not to depend on Ashtakoota Points. Any Good Professional Matchmaker will always check the Individual Chart of the Boy and Girl to See various aspect that will impact the Married Life like Mental compatibility, Nature and character, Married Life, Child birth etc. This is the best matchmaking Process. In Such Case bride and groom can perform Marriage even with less than 10 Ashtakoota Point and the relationship will be harmonious.
Pros and Cons of Online Matchmaking
This is the age of Internet. So Online Astrology is also quite Popular. Everyone wants to get remedies of their problems in a moment. Most of the services are free of cost, easily available and can provide instant results.
But before diving into it, you should consider all of its pros and cons at the very first. Before going further, let me tell you the advantages and disadvantages of using online matchmaking, which is mostly available in free, before marriage.
As I have said, the first and foremost Pros or advantage of Online Matchmaking is the convenience of its usage. You can use it anytime and anywhere. No matter if you are busy in working, eating or some other works. You can use it online conveniently.
It does not consume much time. You can get the result in a minute. Naturally, it is liked by many because you don’t have to go to an astrologer for remedies. Meeting with an astrologer will take time. Even if you consult any Astrologer online he will take time to check the chart. But With online Matchmaking through app, it is a matter of few minutes. The software give instant result
And the last but not the least, the expenses. The softwares available for online Matchmaking are totally free of cost. You get your Online Horoscope Matching done instantly without any cost.
But Everything that comes free has its own Limitations. The pros or advantage of online matchmaking itself is the biggest disadvantage of it. It can be very convenient to use, but it cannot give you an in depth result. It may be fast, but it is not accurate. Rather, the results are very much generic one.
The result you get from an online matchmaking App will be inaccurate. You will get a result that is generated by software. No human astrologer is Checking your chart. So, it is completely unreliable. If you go ahead with online matchmaking, you will end up selecting a wrong proposal.
Moreover The online Matchmaking sites only check the Ashtakuta Points or how many points you get out of 36. But that is only a tiny part of Horoscope Matching. It is only 10-15 percent of actual Matchmaking Process. There are many factors which ,we, an astrologer analyse during the time of Kundali Matching.
So it is always Suggested to avoid online Matchmaking sites if you are serious about Astrology and you should get Horoscope matching done from a professional astrologer.
A Proper matchmaking with horoscope can reduce the ill effect of the Marriage. Except Astrology no other field of study can give us intimations about the future. So we should follow and use it. We must take the benefit of this beautiful science of Astrology.
I hope I have been able to give you ideas enough to know how the Kundali matching works and the importance of Horoscope matching. If you have any query or confusion, do not hesitate to comment.
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Debraj is a professional Astrologer with More than 10 years of Practical experience. Started learning Vedic astrology in a very early age around 12 yrs and almost more than 20 years in astrological study.